Allyns Melendez, Mastering Effective Communication to Build Strong Relationships and Inspire Success – Innova.Buzz 598


Allyns Melendez, HR Transformed.

In this episode of Innova.Buzz, Allyns Melendez joins Jürgen to discuss the power of effective communication in building relationships, understanding personal communication styles, and adapting to the needs of others. She shares insights on aligning organizational values, managing personal challenges, and the art of asking calibrated questions for progress.

  1. Aligning Values: Cultivate relationships with team members who align with your organization’s values and goals for successful communication and collaboration.
  2. Adapting Communication Styles: Understand and adapt to different communication styles to ensure everyone understands the company’s vision and mission.
  3. Calibrated Questions: Use calibrated questions instead of “why” questions to progress conversations, build trust, and find solutions in both personal and work-related situations.

Remember, effective communication is the cornerstone of success in all aspects of life. Listening, adapting, and asking the right questions can pave the way for meaningful connections and accomplishment.

Juliana Marulanda, who was our guest on Innova.Buzz 594 introduced us to Allyns.

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Show Notes from this episode with Allyns Melendez, HR Transformed

In today’s episode, our guest, Allyns Melendez, shares valuable insights on the importance of effective communication in all areas of our lives. From building strong relationships to fostering teamwork, communication truly is the key to success. Join us as we dive deeper into the fascinating world of communication and unravel the secrets to unlocking meaningful connections.

The Foundation of Strong Relationships

Communication lays the groundwork for all successful relationships. Whether it’s a romantic partnership, a friendship, or a professional collaboration, our ability to communicate effectively determines the quality of these connections. According to Allyns, this starts even before hiring, as we must seek individuals who align with our values and goals. By understanding our own communication styles and recognizing how they are received by others, we can bridge potential gaps and build lasting relationships.

The Power of Morning Communication

Mornings have always been seen as a fresh start, and Allyns highlights the benefits of utilizing this time for meaningful conversation. In the morning, we are often more clear-minded and have fewer heavy emotions from the previous day. If someone is open and ready to continue a conversation, it’s best to proceed. However, if they appear shut down or less engaged, it’s important to acknowledge this and suggest continuing the conversation the next day. By considering the readiness of the other person and not ignoring what is happening in front of us, we can ensure more productive and respectful communication.

Craft Your Vision, Share Your Passion

Communication is not only vital in interpersonal relationships, but it’s also crucial in the business world. Allyns recognizes the importance of aligning employees with the company’s vision and goals. To achieve this, business owners must effectively express and share their vision with their team. By providing a clear understanding of how each employee fits into the larger picture, goals can be reached more harmoniously. Understanding different communication styles within the team can also avoid misunderstandings and misinterpretations, leading to a more cohesive and motivated workforce.

Navigating Personal Challenges

Managers often encounter personal challenges faced by their team members. It can be overwhelming and uncertain how to provide support in these situations. Allyns advises managers to acknowledge their limitations, recommend professional resources like HR or employee assistance programs, and avoid sharing personal experiences. By focusing on the work itself while providing understanding and empathy, managers can create a supportive environment where employees feel safe to express their personal challenges.

Shifting Communication Styles for Better Connection

As individuals, we all have unique communication styles and preferences. To effectively communicate, we must adapt to the needs of others while being true to ourselves. Allyns poses the question of how we can shift our words and communication style to grab others’ attention, meet our own needs, and meet their needs simultaneously. It’s a delicate balance that requires active listening, genuine curiosity, and the willingness to make adjustments. Remember, the goal is not to change who we are, but to value and encourage others to be themselves, making the necessary adaptations in the moment.


Effective communication is a superpower that can transform our relationships, teams, and businesses. By investing in understanding our own communication styles, empathizing with others, and adapting our approach, we can create meaningful connections and achieve remarkable results. So, let’s embrace the power of effective communication and unlock the full potential of our relationships and teams.

Remember, communication is the secret ingredient that propels us towards success. So, let’s communicate, connect, and innovate together!

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The Buzz – Our Innovation Round

Here are Allyns’ answers to the questions of our innovation round. Listen to the conversation to get the full scoop.

  1. 1 thing to be more innovative – Look beyond yourself.
  2. Best thing for new ideas – Challenge my own beliefs and experiences.
  3. Favourite resource – The Society of HR Management
  4. Keep project/client on track – Review the client needs and my needs and look to keep them in sync.
  5. Differentiate – Bring your authentic self.


Think about how the other person in the conversation is experiencing you. Think about how your words are landing, what your body language is saying. Look at the person’s response and adapt your communication accordingly.

Reach Out

You can reach out and thank Allyns through her website or LinkedIn.


Cool Things About Allyns

  • Allyns has 25+ years of human resources and business management experience, a Master’s in Business Administration from Temple University Fox School of Business, a Bachelor’s Degree in Business & HR Management from Kaplan University, is a certified analyst of two workplace behavior platforms, is certified in Human Resources Studies from Cornell’s ILR School and completed courses in Leadership Strategies from Harvard Business School and Neuroscience for Business at MIT.
  • Allyns currently serves as CEO at HR Transformed, COO at a national public relations firm and is a Professor of Continuing Education for Temple University.
  • She is fluent in English & Spanish and is conversational in Polish, Arabic and Italian.
  • Allyns lives in the Hudson Valley in New York with her husband and three children. On her free time, she enjoys cooking and spending time with her family.
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Dr. Jürgen Strauss is The World's Best Human-Centred Podcasting Coach and the only Podcast Innovator with the signature bright yellow headphones, who masterfully crafts human connection for high-impact achievers in a vibrant community. You can find Jürgen on LinkedIn, The InnovaBuzz Podcast, The Flywheel Nation Community as well as on Innovabiz' InstagramTwitter, Facebook pages and his personal Photography website.  

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